More and more Malaysian parents are turning towards homeschooling today for various reasons. 
IF you ask Jeremy Lee* how much he likes school, chances are you'll get a rather frank reply.
“I don't like school. I get very restless, and then the teacher will make me stand in the corner and pull my ears,” he says.
Until three years ago, Jeremy, 11, was in a public school. And he had trouble fitting in.
“We
 put him in a public school for Year One and Two. From the start, it was
 clear he had difficulty adapting. We kept getting complaints from 
teachers that he could not concentrate, he couldn't stay in his seat 
long, he asked too many questions and was too opinionated.
“Soon, he was labelled as a difficult student and constantly punished,” his mother Sharon Lee*, 38, explains.
Jeremy
 adds that he had very few friends in school. “If you want to be friends
 with the good students, you have to be very, very good yourself. The 
other students are bullies. You have to pay them RM20 to be their 
friend,” he says.
Sharon says Jeremy had always been a bubbly and
 active child, but his personality began to change and his grades 
suffered. “He was so depressed and miserable, it was frightening. Going 
to school was like torture for him. He had tonnes of homework, but it 
was clear he wasn't learning anything. It was merely a process of doing 
lots of homework, and sitting for test after test.”
Jeremy's 
father Simon Lee* adds: “Initially, we thought maybe it's because we had
 been too easy on him, and so if we pushed him a little more, he would 
be able to do better. So we pushed him and we caned him ... but nothing 
worked.
“One day in the middle of all the caning, he just cried 
back You can cane me until I die, I still won't learn this!' That was 
when we knew it just wasn't working.”
Simon and Sharon began to explore other options, including homeschooling
“We
 read up, attended workshops ... we even visited families who practised 
homeschooling. After about a year of researching and weighing this 
option, we decided to give it a try,” Sharon says.
 Dr Chiam: ‘Parents need to make sure that the (homeschooled) child is exposed to other environments.’
 Dr Chiam: ‘Parents need to make sure that the (homeschooled) child is exposed to other environments.’  
 
 They
 took Jeremy out of the school system when he was nine, and Sharon 
started teaching him at home. Today, Jeremy has been homeschooled for 
three years, and has his nine-year-old brother Matthew* for a classmate.
“I
 think homeschooling has helped him a lot. He likes to find things out 
on his own, rather than being force-fed information. He wasn't getting 
that opportunity in school. Back then, the system was forcing him with 
information, and expecting him to regurgitate it. He couldn't learn that
 way.
“Now he explores and learns at his own pace, and he's 
definitely doing much better. In fact, he's giving me so much more than 
what the programme books are covering. He reads up extra material on 
topics he's interested in and really enjoys it,” she explains.
Sharon
 applies a mix-and-match syllabus and keeps academic lessons to a 
maximum of three hours per day. The rest of the time, her children learn
 through activities or pleasure reading.
“I'm using a little bit 
of the AOP (Alpha Omega Publications a Christian-based syllabus from the
 United States) and Singapore mathematics. That's one advantage of 
homeschooling, I can pick and choose what curriculum I want to use.”
The Lees decided to homeschool Matthew for a very different reason.
“Matthew
 would have fitted perfectly into the public school system. He's 
intelligent and very obedient ... the perfect law-abiding citizen. If 
the teacher says No drinking water in class,' he won't drink water the 
whole day. If the teacher says No going to the toilet,' he will actually
 hold his bladder the whole time he's in school,” Simon says.
“We
 believe he would have been an above-average student in a public school,
 but we didn't want him to be a fearful child who didn't know how to 
express himself. So after a year in public school, we decided to take 
him out too.”
The Lees are not alone in homeschooling their 
children. They say many other families are also turning to homeschooling
 as an alternative education system.
There are essentially three variations of homeschooling:
> parents tutoring their children at home (like the Lees);
> a few families banding to teach their children together in a casual setting;
> centres which apply homeschooling methods and syllabus.
Over
 the last four months, Jamie Ong*, 45, has been sending her daughter 
Jolyn Ong*, 12, to a homeschooling centre near their home. Jolyn had 
spent the last five years in a public school.
“My husband and I 
want our children to experience the public school system, where they get
 to make friends from the different layers of society. We want them to 
experience that first,” she says.
“Our plan is for them to go to a
 regular school for five years, but we pull them out in Year Six. We 
don't really see the need for them to sit for the UPSR, where they're 
just drilled for the exam the whole year.”
Jolyn has two younger siblings in public schools. Jamie plans to take them out, too, after Year 5.
Why homeschooling?
“We
 want our children to have a better quality education. We've seen the 
public school syllabus and we're not comfortable with it. The education 
blueprint ... on paper it looks wonderful, but the reality is a 
different story altogether,” Jamie says.
“We also considered 
private schools, but the fees are too expensive. Schools we inquired at 
were charging around RM10,000 a year, or more. Currently, we're paying 
RM450 a month for Jolyn's school fees. It's a lot more affordable.”
Indeed, quality and cost seem to be two major factors why homeschooling centres are mushrooming nationwide.
Emily
 Wong*, a principal at one such centre in the Klang Valley, says there 
are over 60 students in her centre (between the ages of seven and 18), 
and she knows of at least 80 other similar centres in Malaysia.
“Students
 can come in at any time of the year; there is no intake period. They 
are given an entrance-assessment to see what grade they should start at,
 and then they learn at their own pace,” she says.
“Many people 
think homeschooling centres are only for children with problems, but 
it's not true. We have very bright students, and we have slow students 
too they can learn at their own pace.”
The centre applies the 
Cambridge IGCSE (International General Certificate of Secondary 
Education) curriculum, where students sit for the O-Levels when they are
 ready. This allows them to later pursue the A-Levels, if they choose to
 do so.
Junior students at the centre learn the basic subjects of
 English, Mathematics, Bahasa Malaysia, Social Studies (basic 
introduction to history and geography), and Science.
In Year Six,
 the sciences are split into Biology, Chemistry and Physics, and in Year
 Nine, students have the option of taking up additional subjects such as
 Business Studies, Accounts and Additional Mathematics. Classes are from
 8.30am to 1.45pm, Monday to Friday.
Students have optional 
additional activities such as Mandarin classes, and the Emerging Leaders
 programme. They can also take up sports, such as badminton and 
basketball.
“The students learn through modules books and online.
 If they have problems understanding their lessons, we have supervisors 
who will assist them,” Wong says.
“Senior students even have 
live-conference classes. They can interact with the teacher and ask 
questions. These teachers are experienced ... some are even lecturers in
 the subjects they are teaching.”
She adds that students are 
required to set out daily goals what they set out to do for the day. 
When class ends, they recap to see if they've achieved those goals.
“When
 a student has completed a module, he sits for a test to see if he has 
really understood what he has learned. We hold very high standards for 
our students. Our passing mark is 80,” she says.
While 
homeschooling seems to have gained popularity in Malaysia in the last 10
 to 20 years, it is not a new concept, says Early Childhood Care and 
Education (ECCE) Council 
president Datuk Dr Chiam Heng Keng.
“If
 you go back to history, you will see that homeschooling has been long 
practised, where affluent families hired governesses to tutor their 
children at home. That is homeschooling. Later on, it was more popular 
for the rich to send their children to private boarding schools, so even
 Prince Charles (Prince of Wales) went to school.
“In the 1970s, 
homeschooling regained popularity, particularly in the United States, 
which is why many homeschooling syllabuses come from the US,” says Dr 
Chiam, formerly a Professor of Social Psychology at Universiti Malaya, 
and an authority in child development and early childhood education.
According
 to the US National Center for Education Statistics, there were about 
1.5 million homeschoolers in 2007. Today, the US National Home Education
 Research Institute estimates that there are about two million 
homeschoolers in the country.
Across the Atlantic, the Home Education UK website 
(www.home-education.org.uk)
 estimates that “there are around 60,000 (approximately 0.6%) UK 
children of compulsory educational age who are currently being 
home-educated”.
In Malaysia, data is harder to come by, but 
industry insiders estimate that there are 3,000 to 5,000 Malaysian 
homeschoolers, the majority of whom keep a low profile as a primary 
school enrolment is compulsory by law in the country.
Under 
Section 29A of the Education Act 1996, parents who fail to enrol their 
children in school can be fined up to RM5,000, jailed up to six months, 
or both.
However, parents such as Simon believe that they are not breaking the law.
“I
 believe that this law was enacted to prevent child labour, to make sure
 children get an education. I may not be sending my children to school, 
but I'm giving them quality education,” he says.
Homeschooling, 
however, is not totally free from criticism. A main concern is whether 
homeschooled children have adequate social interaction with their peers.
“Socially,
 they may be impacted, but parents can make up for it by ensuring the 
children have opportunities to interact with other children their age 
(for example, through sports activities). Parents need to expose their 
children to other environments,” Dr Chiam says.
The Lees have done just that Jeremy and Matthew have competitive swimming lessons three times a week.
“They
 have friends from their swimming classes, and they are also very active
 in church. Jeremy and Matthew both play the drums for the children's 
service. Jeremy plays the guitar too,” Sharon says.
“We also belong to a support group of homeschooling families, and the children get to play with the other homeschoolers.”
Is homeschooling for everyone?
“It's
 a very personal decision, and there are many factors to consider. For 
Jeremy, school couldn't bring out the best in him, so we turned to 
homeschooling.
“People often ask us What's the end goal?', but we
 don't have fixed answers. We're just trying to do the best by our 
children. What we have in mind is for them to find out what they really 
enjoy doing. When they enjoy what they do, we believe they will excel,” 
Simon concludes.
*Names have been changed to respect the privacy of the individuals.
By LISA GOH lisagoh@thestar.com.my